Never Use These Words during a Fight with Your Spouse

lido nekaog miafia b;ska ðúf;a ;kslru fjkia fjkjd' fjkod jf.a ;kshu ´fka fohla ksoyfia lrkak ys;kakj;a nE' j.lSï iy.;j Ôúf;ag uqyK fokak f.dvla wh mqreÿ fjkafka marry lrdg miafia ;uhs' mjq,a ðúf;a .; lrk fldg b;ska fokak fouy,af,da w;r fmdä fmdä rKavq;a fjkjd' tl idudkH fohla' yenehs fukak fï rKavq fjk fj,djg wms fmdâvla mßiaiñka NdIdj yiqrejkak ´fka' fudlo miafia fokak hdÆ Wk;a wr j,sh fj,dfõ lshmq iuyrla foaj,a kï wdfha ljodj;a fokakf.a yS;a j,ska ulkak kï neß fjhs' tl ksid Thd husband tlal yß wife tlal yß rKavq fjk fldg ljodj;a lshkak fydo ke;s foaj,a álla .ek Thd,g lsh,d fokakï 

ug Èlalido fjkak ´fka

oeka Tkak Thd,d rKavq fjkafka f.or fndfydu fmdä m%Yafklg lsh,d ys;kakflda' yenehs Thdf.a ys; f.dvla ßÈ,d' oeka Thdg Thdf.a iyldrhg;a ta ÿlu fokak ´fka' tl ksid Thd lshkjd ug Èlalido fjkak ´fka lsh,d' yenehs Thd fï foa lshkakfka we;a;gu fkfjhs' thdg ßoaokak' kuq;a Thd,d okakjo fï jf.a fohla lsõjg miafia Thdf.a partnerg f.dvla ÿl ysf;kjd lsh,d' Tõ ta foa thdf.a ys; wiafia yeuodu /õ ms,s/õ foú ljodj;a ulkak neß fjkak' ta ksid Thdg we;a;gu divorce tl ´fka kï ú;rla tfyu lshkak' tfyu ke;=j fmdä fmdä rKavq j,§ fï jf.a jpk Ndú;d lrkak tmd'

n,kak Thdf.a fï lE .eys,a, ksid <uhskq;a wvkjd

Thd,d rkavq Wkdg lula kE' yeu fcdavqjla u fmdähg yß rKavq fjkjd'tl idudkH fohla'bo,d ysg,d j;a fokakd tlal fmdä rKavqjla od .;af;a ke;a;ï fun tlla j;a kE' yenehs Thd,f.a rKavq j,§ fmdä <uhs .ek lsh,d Thdf.a me;a;g jdish .kak yokak tmd'tflka fjkak fmdä Wka fouõmsfhda .ek jerÈ m%;srem we;s lr .kak tl'Thd úiskau Thdf.a iyldrhd fyda iyldßh .ek jerÈ wdl,amhla thdf.u orejkaf.a ys;a ;=, we;s lrk tl muKhs'

Thd kï uyd '''''''''''''''''''^ysia;ekg i;a;= j;af;a yd msg ðj;a fjk leu;s if;laf.a kus od.kak &

fï foa kï ljodj;a lrkak tmd' Tfí iylrejdf.a je/oao fjkqfjka thdg nkskak' jdo lrkak' yenehs fmdä Wka jf.a wmydi lr .kak tmd' ta jf.a foaj,a j,ska fjkafka j,sh fjk me;a;lg hk tl ú;rhs'

wehs Thdg neß ^Thdf.a fydou hdÆfjlaf. kula& iukau,Sf.a husband  jf.a jev lrkak

wfmda fukak fï foa lrkaku tmd hdÆjfka' tflka Thdf.a iylrhdf.a ys; f.dvla ßfokjd jf.au Thd .ek thdf.a ysf;a ;sfhk m%;srEmh Thd úiskau úkdY lr .ekSula fjkjd' ljodj;a fjk msßñfhla tlal Thdf.a husband ixikaokh lr,d ks.%y lrkak tmd'tflka husband Thd .ek misunderstand lr .kak mq¿jka 

wfma wïud ug lsõjd fï foa fjhs lsh,d

ljodj;a Thd,f.a rKavq j,g f;fjks md¾Yjhla .dj .kak tmd' úfYaIfhka Thdf.a fouõmsfhda' tflka fjkafka Thdf.a fouõmsfhda .ek Thdf.a iylrejd fyda iyldßhf.a ys; we;=f,a Thd úiskau jhsrhla we;s lrk tl ú;rhs' tflka ljodyß Thdf.a wysxil wïuhs ;d;a;hs ÿla úÈú 

fï fiarugu jerÈ ldrhd Thd

fokafkla újdy Wkdg miafia fjk fjku ys;k tl kj;a;,d tlg ys;kak mgka .kak ´fka' fokakf.a ðúf;a .ek .kak yeu ;SrKhlau fokak tlal l;d ny lr,d ;uhs .kak ´fka' b;ska mjq,a cúf;a we;=f,a fjk lsiu folg tlaflfkla ú;rla 100] jerÈ ldrfhla fjkafka kE ljodj;a' tl ksid ljodj;a fï jpk ál Thdf.a partner g rKavq fjk fj,djg lshkak tmd'tflka fjkak Tyqg fyda wehg f,dl= ;kslula wirKlula oefkk tl ú;rhs

yß oekg fï we;s' ;j u;la Wfkd;a miafia odkakï' wnq ieñfhda Wkdu wksjd bo,d ysg,d yß fmdä rKavqjla fjkak ´fkuhs' ke;a;ï lsis .;shla kE' yenehs fmdä fmdä rKavq ljodj;a f,dl= lr .kak hkak tmd' fldákau lsõfjd;a Thd,d nqoaêu;aj rKavq fjkak ´fka' wehs okakjo uka tfyu lshkafka @ h,s uoyila fy<d ljkd n;a úv mjq,a Ôúf;a§ yßu rij;a ksid tfykï wms .shd