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ñh.sh {d;Skag ksjerÈj msx wkqfudaoka lrkafka fufyuhs

wo fndfyda msxlï lrkafka lrkakka jdf,a ñi bka ,efnk m%;s,dNh .ek wjOdkhla" wjfndaOhla fkdue;sjhs' iuyre fuh lrkafka ;r.hg" m%isoaêhg" ixo¾YKhlg" iuyr úg flfkla uereKq úg odkhla fokafka wks;a wh lrk ksid fyda th f,dalhg m%ldY lsÍula yeáhg ñi msßiqÿ fÉ;kdjlska fkdfjhs'

iuyr u< f.j,aj, odk f.j,aj," isÿjkafka msxlug meñfKk iuyr fokd iyNd.s lrf.k u;ameka mdkh lrñka isysuq,d jQ iemhla" i;=gla" iekiSula fidhd hEuhs' fujeks nd, udkisl;ajhla ;=<ska mqKH Yla;shla f.dvk.d .; yelafla flfiao@ hkak m%Yakhls' tfukau fuhska isÿjk n,j;au ydksh jkafka fujeks l%shd wkqu; fkdlrk nyq;rhla fokd yg o isf;a tl.;djhla f.dvk.d .; fkdyels ùuhs' isf;a tlÛ;djhla fkdue;sj wmsßiqÿ fÉ;kdjlska msx §ula" msx mejÍula l< fkdyelsh' ta ksid l=uk msxlula jqjo ksje/È wdldrhgu" msßiqÿ fÉ;kdjla we;sj isÿ l< hq;=hs' msx n,dfmdfrd;a;= jk iEu fokdf.au is;g mQ¾K i;=gla ,nd § ta whg ta NQ;" fma%; wd;auj,ska ksoyia ù hkakg yels wdldrhgu msx wkqfudaoka lsÍu" msx ,nd§u" msx mejÍu" msx msysgqùu l< hq;=hs'

;ukaf.a kñka ñh mrf,dj .sh fndfyda wh Ôj;aj isák ld,h ;=< kej; iq.;shl WmÈkakg fyda ñksia nj foú nj fyda ksjk wjfndaO lr .kakg u. M, ,nkakg m%udKj;a jQ msxlï fkdl< ksid fndfyda fofkl= NQ;" fma%; jYfhka WmÈk nj;a" Tjqka msx n,dfmdfrd;a;=fjka ;u ;ukaf.a ksfjiaj," W¿jyq Wv ì;a;s Wv fyda f.org yefrk ykaÈj, wd§ ;ekaj, fkdfhl=;a wdldrfha fma%;" NQ;" fõYfhka wmg fkdfmfkk wdldrfhka isák nj;a ;sfrdal=âv iQ;%fha i|yka fõ' fï NQ;" fma%; fldgia fol iuyr úg iuyr whf.a YÍrh ;=<g n,mEï l< yels Yla;shlska hqla;hs' fma%; lshkafka fma fj,d bkak ;;a;ajhls' tkï hula b,a,ñka isák fldgih' NQ; lshkafka hï fohla ìys lrkakg n,hla we;s fldgih' fï ñksi;a nj ,nd isák ld,h ;=< ksjka fkdoelal;a" wju jYfhka kej; ukqIH wd;auhla ,nkakg fyda iq.;shl bm§ug fyda m%udKj;a msxlï isÿ lr .ekSug jEhï l< hq;=hs'

tfia fkdue;sj hï hï ÿisß;a" mdml¾u" wl=i,a isÿ lsÍu mqreoaola f,i Tnf.a Ôú;hg noaO ù ;sfí kï tu mdm l¾u" .rel l¾u f,i n,j;a ùu ksid ud¾. M, ksjka wjfndaOhg fyda iq.;shl bm§ug fyda Tng wjia:djla fkd,efí' i;r wmd .; fjhs' i;r wmdfhao fldgia y;rla ;sfí'

krl" ;sßika" fma%; yd NQ; hkqfjks' ^fndfyda fn!oaO fmd; mf;ys fuh krl" ;sßika" fma%; yd wiqr hkqfjka olajd we;'& ;sßika wmdfha yd ksrfha bkakd wh NQ; yd fma%; ;;a;ajhkag jvd fjkia jkafka Tjqka NQ;" fma%; fofldgi fuka msx b,a,kafka fkdue;s neúks'

Ôj;aj bkakd wh fkdfhla wdldrfha ri fndcqka wkqNj lrkjd' m%S;s W;aij" fNdack ix.%y mj;ajkjd' oka fokjd' kuq;a wr n,d bkak fma%;hkag" NQ;hkag fïjd ri ú¢kak l¾u Yla;shla keye' Tjqkag l¾u wdjrKhla fj,d ;sfhkjd' ta ksid ta whg ‘lmam;s’ lsh, lem lr, wdydr ÿkafka ke;akï" lem lr, msx mejrefj ke;akï ta whg tajd ,nd.; fkdyels fjkjd' ta ksid tjka wjia:dj,§ “wfka uf.a mq;d fkao@ ÿj fkao@ uf.a wh fkao@ fï lkafk fndkafk” lshd fï wukqIH fldgia b;d ÿflka n,d bkakd nj fï iQ;% foaYkdfõ meyeÈs,sj ú.%y lr ;sfnkjd'

ta ksid ñksiqka yeáhg wm oek .kak ´kE fï jf.a wjia:dj,§ ;udf.ka msx n,dfmdfrd;a;= jk fldgila bkak nj' Èkm;d ta whg msx fokak ´kE' ta whj ksoyia lrkak ´kE' ta ksid msxlula l< yeu fudfyd;lu fï ixidf¾ wkka;" wm%udK jQ wd;auj, ;ukag Woõ l< ishÆ fokdu isysm;a lr lsisu fjkila fkdlr iufia msx wkqfudaoka lr msx §" msx msysgqúh hq;=hs' úfYaIfhka oek.; hq;= lreKla ;uhs ñh.sh tla whl=g muKla msx wkqfudaoka lsÍfuka hï hï m%Yak we;sjk nj' thg fya;= fï fma%;" NQ; fldgia w;S; l,am /ila ;=< ukqIHhkaj isáh§ hï {d;shl= iuÛ we;s jQ iïnkaOhla ksid tu {d;shd msgqmi msx n,dfmdfrd;a;=j .uka lrkjd' tu {d;shd msxlula lr Ñ;a; m%idohla we;sj" mqKH Yla;shla Wmojd msx muqKqjk wjia:dj,§ ta wh yßhg f.dgq w,a,df.k isák ysÛkakka jf.a ta ta ;ekaj, msx .kakg n,d bkakjd' fufia fndfyda ñh.sh {d;Ska iuQy jYfhka msx .kakg t;ekg /iajk nj ;sfrdal=âv iQ;%fha i|yka fjkjd'

ta ksid flfkla ñh.sh úg tu {d;shd kñka muKla msx §u jerÈhs' wm l< hq;= jkafka m<uqj ;uka kñka ñh mrf,dj .sh ishÆu fokdu isysm;a lr msx § fojkqj tu {d;shd yg msx §uhs' ys;kakflda wïud ñh .shd lsh,d' kuq;a oeka wïud bkafk msx .kak neß ;ekl' ke;akï msx wjYH ke;s ;ekl'

kuq;a msx ,nd.; yels" w;S;fha§ ;ukaf.au wïud" ;d;a;d" ÿj mq;d jeks Tn iu. hïlsis .kqfokqjla ;snqKq flfkla n,d bkakjd' kuq;a thdg msx fkd§ fjk flkl=g lmam;s lsh, lem lr, msx fokjd' fïl f,dl= wvqjla' ;sfrdal=âv iQ;%fha meyeÈ,sj i|yka lr we;af;a iEu flkl=gu lem lr," msx mjr," msx wkqfudaok l< hq;= nj'

fuu iQ;% foaYkdfõ i|yka jk ;j;a lreKla ;uhs iuyr úg ;ukaf.a {d;Ska fkdjk ljod fld;ekl§ fyda jpkhlska fyda hïlsis msysgla" Wmldrhla l< wh o NQ; fyda fma%; ù isà kï ta wh o fujeks wjia:dj,§ ñksiqka msgqmi msx ,nd .ekSug meñfKk nj' tu ksid ta fma%;" NQ;d§ka úiska ;ukag fyda ;u {d;Skag Woõ Wmldr isÿ ù we;akï ta whg o hym; m;d msx Èh hq;=hs'

fï NQ;" fma%; fldÜGdi folu ksoyia lsÍfï l%u folla ;sfnkjd' tlla ;uhs msxlula lr, ta whg msx §,d ta NQ;" fma%; ;;a;ajfhka Tjqka ksoyia lr msxlula lr .; yels iq.;shlg ksoyia lsÍu' fojeks l%uh ;uhs ;ukaf.a Kh .kqfokqj f.j, ta whf.ka ;uka ksoyia ùu'

wm ljqre;a oel ;sfnkjd msxlïj,§ meka jvk wdldrh' fï lghq;a; w;S;fha§ isÿ lf<a O¾uh f;areï .ekSug wmyiq whg fï msx fok wdldrh myiqfjka f;areï .ekSughs' Wäka jefgk j;=r ixfla;j;a lf<a msßiqÿ is;ska" msßiqÿ fÉ;kdjla we;sj msxlula isÿ lsÍuhs'

tfia jefgk c,fhka Ndckh msÍ b;sÍ hkakd fia .x.d W;=rd id.rhg hkakd fia wm fok msx ta ta n,dfmdfrd;a;= jk ishÆu NQ;" fma%; foú foaj;djka wd§ iEu ishÆ fokdgu fkdwvqj msysgqùuhs' fï ksid ta whf.a Ñ;a; ika;dkh msfkka msÍ ta wd;aufhka ksoyia fj,d hym;a wd;auhlg hkak mq¿jka fjkj' tfia ke;akï ta wh i;=áka t;ekska kslañ,d hkjd' NQ;" fma%; lshk fldgia folu fï wdldrfhka ys; i;=gq lr, msx §, ksoyia l< yelshs'

ta jf.au fï iQ;%fha i|yka fjkj" wms msxlula lr hïlsis flfkl=g msx fok úg ta msx fok ;ek yeéï"je<mSï" fYdal mßfoaj lsÍï lr is; oafõIhg m;a lr fkd.; hq;= nj' ysf;a tl.;djh msßiqÿ nj fkdkid mj;ajd .; hq;= nj'

ñh.sh mqoa.,hd .ek is;ñka Tyq fyda weh Ôj;aj isáhd kï ug fld;rï Wmldr lrhso@ ug fld;rï mdvqjla o@ wd§ jYfhka is;d udkhla" rd.hla" ne£ula we;s lr fkd.; hq;=h' isf;a msßiqÿ nj ke;s ù kï msx fokak;a nE' msx .kak;a nE' fï nj fyd¢ka f;areï .; hq;=hs'

fï iQ;%fha wjika jYfhka i|yka fjkj fufia msx lula isÿlr" msßiqÿ fÉ;kdjlska msx wkqfudaoka l< flkl=g lsis Èfkl NQ;" fma%; jeks ;;a;ajhlg fyda i;r wmdhg fkdjeà ksoyia jkakg yels nj'

wms ljr fyda msx lula isÿl< miqj msx fok .d:djla lshkafkuq' ta ;uhs ‘t;a;dj;dp wïfyayS’ lshk .d:dj' fuys iífí foajd m<uqjo" iífí NQ;d fojkqjo" iífí i;a;d f;jkq o jYfhka ;=ka mdrlgu lsh hq;=h' tlu .d:djg fï ;=ku wE|d fkdlsj hq;=hs' fï wkqms<sfj<g fya;=j o oek .; hq;=h' m<uq wjia:dfõ§ foaj lshk fldgig muKhs msx .; yels'

fojeks wjia:dfõ§ NQ; lshk fldgig msx .; yelshs' kuq;a uq, § foaj lshk fldgig msx .ekSug fkdyels jQjd kï fï wjia:dfõ§ foúhkag o msx .ekSug yelshs' iífí i;a;d wkqfudaoka;= hk ;=kajeks wjia:dfõ§ ishÆ fokdgu msx .ekSug yels fjkjd' tkï uq,a wjia:d fofla§ msx .kak neß jQjd kï" weiqfKa ke;akï" jegyqfKa ke;skï fï ;=kajk jr ishÆ fokdgu ta wjia:dj ysñfjkjd' fuys iífí i;a;d hkq NQ;" fma%;" foú foaj;d" ;sßika" ñksia hk ishÆu fldgia j,ghs' ^wry;=ka jykafia yer& ta wdldrfhka u ñh.sh {d;Skag msx §fï§ ta .d:dj o f;jrla lsj hq;=hs'

boxfï {d;Skx fyda;= hk .d:dj fojrla o" boxfjda {d;S kx fyda;=” hkqfjka tlajrla o lsjhq;=hs' boxfï lshkafka ug iïnkaOhla ;sfnk" uu Kh ;sfnk" uf.ka msx .kakg n,dfmdfrd;a;= jk fldgihs' boxfjda {d;S kx lshkafka tfyu iïnkaOhla ke;s jQj;a msx n,dfmdfrd;a;= jk ndysr fldgigh'

ta ksid f;areï .; hq;=hs' fï iir .ufka§ hï .kqfokqjla ksid iïnkaOhla we;s jQ kEhka" fkdkEhka hk ishÆu fldgig jeä úhoula ke;sj" msßisÿ fÉ;kdjlska muKla msx § ta wh ksoyia l< yels nj'
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